Eriku wrote:You sure you know what child services does in Norway, let alone my area of the country?
No, I don't. I do, however, have a pretty good hint from a source I hope you respect.
Eriku wrote:Thirdly, I work in child services, and if I get a blemish on my record I lose my only recently attainted job, being the first job I really love, and that would be bad for me, the municipality, and the young refugees to whom I've been a good influence, if I may say so.
So I would deduce that you would not be allowed to tell the kids that you smoke weed (if you do) and how you regulate yourself. Even if you don't, there are lots of responsible adults around who do recreational drugs, and have done them since their early teens. Do you share those stories? Or just the ones about harm?
It's pretty obvious that you are dealing with the same shit we are. Can you help a young person learn to hide their drug use from social services and the police? Would you be able to put that into a written report to give to your boss or funders?
Eriku wrote:We've not been jamming any propaganda into the heads of kids, and if I were asked to trump up bogus claims I'd certainly tell them that I'd do no such thing... I'd tell them all the true things, that youths in a crucial time of their lives would do well to leave their brain chemistry alone, but I wouldn't misinform them, as I think that's unconscionable...
Would you tell them ALL the true things? Or just the ones which support a 'don't use drugs' message?
Eriku wrote:
Incidentally I don't think having the law deal with it is in any way the best thing to do, but me being a casualty wouldn't do much... An organised and HUGE wave of people fessing up might, but I won't just give it a jolly good go and hope that I make the news, and that people'll pick up the baton.
You and me both, Eriku. I have been trying to think of how much of a 'wave' it would take to get me to turn myself in. I can't say. I think I would be a late-adopter.
Eriku wrote:
I only work with young refugees without parents, btw... and they lack so much fundamental education and so much language skills that drugs "education" isn't on the list right now.
I have no doubt that you are working hard and aiming for great success. I am not as sure that you will be able to do it under any large administration. Mostly, my best hope is that you do not follow the lead of your policies and policy-makers.
Eriku wrote:
But no, this isn't the time for me to rock my boat... I've just received a tremendous amount of help from my parents and others in settling, and have seen great progress with the kids I've been helping since February, and have just settled into a new flat... I'd be shooting myself in the foot as well as vaulting a huge amount of excrement at people I care about if I outed myself for nothing now... If the time comes that the Hemlock might be drunk and might change things, I reckon I might do it... but I'd like to get some more experience in before I fuck myself over... I'm quite short on that and life doesn't treat those without credentials kindly.
You aren't kidding!
So are you really able to teach EVERYTHING about recreational drug use? Or just the polished version? Can you tell the folks you work with that you (if you do) smoke, keep it away from work and try not to foul other people's air too much? Or is it still a situation where you are best off avoiding the issue or pretending that you don't do drugs?
(that is the way it is mostly here and I mostly comply)