Dev, Pen, Seth .. just in case you forgot what the topic's about

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floppit wrote:I volunteered through 2 winters for a rough sleeper supper at Emmanuel House (for the nottinghamites!).
The supper night only ran through winter and the issues were often immediate, soaked bedding, sub zero temperatures, the council closing public loos.
I used to muse that if you asked anyone present with a significant physical disability to leave a few would leave, the deaf bloke, the one on crutches and a couple less regulars likewise impaired. Then if I asked again would those with a learning disability please go, more would leave, the 20 something who carries a colouring book and goes from one boyfriend to the next - all street sleepers, and a couple others maybe just as effected but less obvious without the crayons! Then if I asked that all those with severe MH problems go one of my faves would be offski, I first worked there while pregnant and used to reply (as you do) when he spoke to me, I don't think I ever stopped replying but I did learn he was talking to someone I couldn't see not me. After having Munch, the second winter he said something that pulled me up short - it seemed real, I asked what he'd said and he DEFINITELY asked after the baby! The one and only time he genuinely spoke to me, very brief, once I replied he talked nonsense again. The guy whoo kept missing his dinner washing his hands would have to go and the one that sat scared at the back. I think a fair portion of the others too, those with frequent suicide attempts, etc etc.
By this point there would only be a few left in the day centre. If I then asked can those who grew up an care, people who can't read and those fresh out the nick please leave - I think someone or even 2 or 3 would be left, although I wouldn't bet much on it.
Obviously that I worked hard winters will have flavoured those I saw, perhaps those that just prefer a free life winter in. Issues like addiction were rife, fucking rife, so was rejection of authority but issues like these spread faster and harder amongst the most vulnerable - the girl with the crayons used smack and there's nothing so unusual about that, not in that world.
I think people see the self damaging behaviour and conclude it holds the explanation needed, a hot meal won't change it so cut the hot meal and the person will change. That (to me) is intolerably ignorant of the variety and causes of people 'dropping out' - especially during wet, sub zero winter. Giving someone a meal is just that, it's a hot meal, a warm chair for an hour or two, a chance to see the outreach nurse, maybe get dry socks. To make that illegal - to outlaw it, is despotic.
Yep, I think anyone who has actually worked in this area (and many who don't) would share your view, floppit ..
The first sentence of the last paragraph is a good observation, too ... and seems to be true of those who have black and white views about social issues, in general. People are considered "good" or "bad", "deserving" or "underserving", If they're being considered at all ... Morality getting in the way of ethics ...