http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2011 ... sogyny.php[/quote]lordpasternack wrote:Pharyngulated:-
You want a man inside you, it's up to you to deal with the mess left behind. I won't bitch at you if you have an abortion, but you don't get to demand ANYTHING from me, certainly not child support. If you don't like the mess, don't invite me to the party.
How's that for fair?
It's a marvel of twisted logic, and really had me wondering if Seth was a virgin.
I have to agree, though, that his demands are fair, as long as it's not his fault that he's having vaginal intercourse, and as long as he was honest and specific in his expectations with his partner before hand. Who would then, of course, refuse to have sex with him, ever.
The thing that's weird about his argument is that he demands full humanity for a zygote, but does not even consider the born child to be human enough to have its own rights. It's not the mother's right to child support. It's the child's right. It's the child's right to support from the parents. Using Seth's logic, if a mother and father of a 12 year old child agree to divorce, and agree that the father will pay zero child support, the child will have no right to that support. Obviously, parents can't do that. There won't be a problem if the custodial parent has no problem supporting the child - there's nobody to complain really - but, if the custodial parent becomes unable to support the child and applies for governmental aid, the government will ask about amounts received in child support and if that amount is zero they will act on behalf of the child and go after the support.
And the pharyngula comment above hits right on another main problem with Seth's argument. Seth is talking about a father's non-responsibility for support being the default position, whereby UNLESS the parties speak up and contract to make him liable, then he isn't. There's no real reason to adopt that as the default position, though. It's just as rational to suggest that since the parties haven't agreed on anything that both parents are responsible for their progeny. If a contract is made to the contrary, then the parties can follow the terms of that contract, except that neither party has the right to contract on behalf of a child (who Seth acknowledges is a separate human being).