School nativity plays. Would you...?

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School nativity plays. Would you...?

Post by Rum » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:25 pm

Most primary (pre 11 years here in the UK) put some sort of play on at this time of year. We call them 'nativity plays' here and they re-enact the birth of our Lord and Saviour. Oh yes!

How do or would you feel about your kids (real, imagined or hoped for in the future) being in a nativity play? Would you object? If so how would you register your objection?

I assume this does not apply to most 'public' schools in the USA given the theoretical separation of Church and State etc.. Maybe not though.

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Post by Millefleur » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:28 pm

Mine don't do a nativity, they have a 'Winter Show' with autumn/winter themed songs. It was great last year actually, everyone down to the 2 yr olds were able to get involved including my very shy 5 yr old and the older children performed alongside one of the parents playing a Cello. Chaotic, sweet and not a hint of baby Jebus :td:
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Post by HomerJay » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:32 pm

The play itself is only a small part of the 'Christmas curriculum' that kids are taught at that time of year, it would seem a bit churlish to object solely to the play, unless you have religious objections to music and impersonation?

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Post by Thinking Aloud » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:42 pm

Mine do them every year.

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Post by M » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:45 pm

I have been to all my kids nativity shows or other xmas shows. If they were given parts in plays based on tolkein works I'd go to them too. I'd also go and see them in any hollywood blockbuster. Make believe is make believe. Me supporting my kids is more important than me making a stance against anything. Put my principles above my children? Not fucking likely.
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Post by maiforpeace » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:54 pm

Rum wrote:I assume this does not apply to most 'public' schools in the USA given the theoretical separation of Church and State etc.. Maybe not though.
I think in more liberal areas they are more mindful of being all inclusive and don't do nativity plays anymore, but there will be at least 2 or 3 reports of controversy over this for the upcoming holidays, mostly in the Bible Belt. I have an atheist friend in Alabama who, along with the parents of a Jewish child objected to the religiosity of the nativity play and asked if they could do something more seasonal and inclusive. The school's solution was to isolate those two children in study hall while all the other kids joined in the holiday festivities and the nativity play. It's was pretty traumatic and hurtful for the children and the parents.

Of all the fun things that they could come up with for a holiday play, all they can come up with is the same old tired nativity scene?
Millefleur wrote:Mine don't do a nativity, they have a 'Winter Show' with autumn/winter themed songs. It was great last year actually, everyone down to the 2 yr olds were able to get involved including my very shy 5 yr old and the older children performed alongside one of the parents playing a Cello. Chaotic, sweet and not a hint of baby Jebus :td:
That sounds great, and cute! ;this: is what they should be doing.
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Post by hadespussercats » Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:37 pm

We did winter-themed plays at school around Xmas-- with Jack frost and snowflakes. There might have been a Santa and some caroling involved. But I still love Xmas carols, so that wouldn't really pose a problem for me. I guess my take on it is that little kids are very good at playing pretend. If they wanted to be in a Nativity Play, or, Thor forbid, were required to be in one, I would let them (unless they themselves didn't want to do it)-- but I'd make sure they understood that they were playing pretend, even if some of their friends or teachers thought they were telling a true story. Nothing wrong with a little drama, says this theatre practitioner.
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Post by Clinton Huxley » Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:41 pm

I wouldn't stress about it. I was in plenty nativity plays and it clearly made absolutely no damned difference.

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Post by Santa_Claus » Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:44 pm

I'd tell the kids it was make beleive.

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Post by Bella Fortuna » Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:52 pm

I was in one at age 5 when I went to Baptist school. :ddpan:
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Post by beige » Sat Nov 13, 2010 10:53 pm

I was the angel Gabriel.

All the other kids had stupid little fairy wings from a costume shop, I cut mine out of removal boxes and covered them in tinfoil.

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Post by floppit » Sat Nov 13, 2010 11:23 pm

Of course i'd let her do it - even make the costume! If her school's doing a play i'm not going to split her from her mates, not unless I WANTED her to want religion.

I wonder if her playgroup will do one? I sort of hope so, those naff plays are a right of passage, it wouldn't be the same if it was a sensible show without the plastic Jesus getting some serious abuse!

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Post by charlou » Sun Nov 14, 2010 4:28 am

One year during the children's (secular) school's end of year family get together, one of the older classes put on a nativity performance that was a deliciously irreverent and subversive parody. I fell in love with the teacher involved that day. :mrgreen:
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Post by JimC » Sun Nov 14, 2010 4:37 am

I was a shepherd in mine, and it was OK, it didn't affect me like poor Pappa... :hehe:

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Post by lordpasternack » Sun Nov 14, 2010 2:55 pm

I'm reminded by the time in nursery when my nephew was playing a part in the nativity play. He only had one line to say - something to do with sheep, I think... On the day, he just walked onto the stage on his cue, and burst out crying. My brother said that was the day his acting career began and ended. :hehe: :console:
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