The only practical solution to this is to gradually shift to Men's rooms, Ladies' rooms, and Co-Ed.L'Emmerdeur wrote: ↑Thu Dec 20, 2018 3:06 amIt's good to be the Assistant Principal. When a student freaks you out, you can do something about it. Too bad the snowflakes are giving him such a hard time, eh?
'ACLU on side of transgender Clarksburg student allegedly bullied by assistant principal'
(Here's a link to a story about the incident from the Daily Beast, in case the above is geoblocked.)
The assistant principal has been suspended.The American Civil Liberties Union of West Virginia is taking action after a transgender student at Liberty High School said he was encountered by an assistant principal in the school’s boys’ bathroom and barricaded there for several minutes.
Michael Critchfield, a sophomore at Liberty, said the incident happened during an after-school event on Nov. 27.
Students, who were leaving on a band trip, were told to use the restrooms before boarding the buses to Morgantown, and Critchfield chose to use the boys’ restroom, as that is the gender with which he identifies.
“There were not many people there since it was after school and all that was there were probably sports teams, late buses and band students,” he said. “I had checked to see if anyone was at the urinal, and I looked to see if there was a bag there. If there was a bag, I would have walked in with my head down, or I would have waited until someone came out and then I would’ve gone in.”
The school’s assistant principal Lee Livengood entered the restroom and asked if anyone was still in the bathroom. Critchfield said he responded “yes,” and Livengood remained in the bathroom until he came out of the stall.
“He kept asking me why I was in there. [He said] I shouldn’t be in there because I am not a guy, and I told him I am a boy, I identify with this bathroom, and it is my legal right to use this restroom,” Critchfield said.
Critchfield said Livengood harassed and intimidated him, ultimately challenging him to use a urinal to prove he was a boy.
“He was blocking the doorway so I couldn’t get out because if I tried to get out through the doorway he was in front of, he could’ve said that I hit him or something and got me in more trouble,” Critchfield said. “I was barricaded in the bathroom for three or four minutes, and then a band mom was coming down complaining that they could hear Mr. Livengood yelling at me in the bathroom from the cafeteria, from the hallways, and some could hear it from the band room so she came down to see what was wrong.”
At the end of the exchange, Livengood said to Critchfield, “Not going to lie. You freak me out,” in front of the other students and the chaperone,” Critchfield said.
I think the arguments over who is and isn't a snowflake in this instance aren't productive. Saying someone who objects to opposite sex folks in the restroom is a "snowflake" is just an "oh yeah - you wanna call me a snowflake - well YOU'RE the snowflake!"
I look at it this way - by way of example - there are little girls like mine who are starting to go into bathrooms on their own. I think it's fair that boys ought not be going into the girls' room. Why? It's about the "trans" person who wants to use the opposite sex room. It's about the regular kids, who are acting like normal, regular kids and behaving ,quite often, badly. It's about girls' having a normal hesitance to go do their business if boys are coming into the restroom.
I agree wholeheartedly that there is nothing additional to fear from trans people that isn't applicable to regular people - and I'd go so far as to say that most likely open trans people are probably LESS likely to do something untoward in the rest room, because they tend to have anxieties and emotional issues to deal with given the societal norm they're coming up against.
That being said, while I wouldn't mind if a biological female came in the room while I had my dick out, whizzing in the urinal. Have a look! I really don't care. But, I do understand that some men would care. I also think that it's reasonable for women and girls to be off-put by biological men and boys coming into the ladies room while they are taking care of various bits of business.
As such, it would seem fairly reasonable to have sex-based bathrooms, and males get one, females get another, and their concerns are respected, and then there is a co-ed or both sex or any sex bathroom for those that don't want to "identify" with their biological sex.
But, that's probably transphobic or something.
All that said, the Assistant Principal deserved to get fired, as the way he treated a student in his care was abysmal. Even if it was not appropriate for the student to be in the restroom, public humiliation, scorn and the like is not the place of the school administration. If a rule was broken, impose a penalty and notify the parents. If not, fuck off. Good riddance to bad rubbish.