'Has your partner's soul'? Come on now.Scot Dutchy wrote:Rum the catholic church has your partners soul. She is on the registry. To remove her name from the registry is almost impossible. There is a Dutch guy on Ratskep who did manage but it took a lot of time and effort.Rum wrote:I don't agree. My partner was born in a Catholic family. None of her family 'practice' or even think of themselves as Catholic. She is very agnostic in her outlook. I think the recent history of the Catholic church, not least the abuse that has been uncovered has eroded their credibility amongst people who would have been 'natural' believers more quickly than anyone could have guessed. Ireland used to have what was in effect a shadow government in the form of the Catholic Church. No longer.
The effect of the abuse carried out by the catholic church is very visible in Ireland. In my wife's home town in Limerick County there is only one Sunday mass that is poorly attended and the priest is an African. In my wife's youth there were at least three priests and three masses on a Sunday and there was also a daily mass.
That is all gone.
BTW for a muslim it means death if he claims he does not believe (well according to the koran).
As to being apostate - I was part of a born again Christian group in my late teens and briefly (like for about 18 months) was a true believer. I was lucky enough to leave the setting when I was entrapped (I use the word advisedly) by leaving Hong Kong for home leave with my parents. While away I decided it was all baloney and when I returned to HK six months later informed some of my Christian pals. I was told in no uncertain terms that a special place in hell is reserved for people who have 'found god' and then rejected it/her/him.
Some loving god - as ever.
A good number of my Xian pals of the time drifted away in due course. One of them - my best friend through school contacted me a few years ago when he was about to retire to Oz. We had a really great reunion. He is now living out his retirement drifting up and down the east coast of Oz, drinking beer with his very lovely wife and telling god to fuck off.