Well, to me, I would definitely not have a law against public nudity, and toplessness. There is, however, a difference between male and female chests. Men don't have mammary glands, and women's breasts tend to be more pronounced, larger nipples, etc. The difference, to me, doesn't matter. I don't think there is any good reason to have laws about someone showing her tits. Even public nudity banning is a pointless exercise. On the beach and at public pools, people can wear speedos and bikinis that show everything just about. Women can shave their pubes and wear something that just barely covers their vulva, and both butt cheeks can be fully exposed with a small strip of fabric covering only the crack of her ass. That's fine with me.Śiva wrote:Fair enough. If men can go about topless, then it makes perfect sense women can as well.Forty Two wrote:A person's sexuality can be public, regardless of their orientation or gender, etc. I.e. -- there should be equal treatment under the law as to what conduct in public is acceptable. If kissing or hand holding in public is allowed, then the genders/sexes of the participants ought to be meaningless.
Frankly, women don't really want to go around topless anyway. Look at the cities that allow it. Toronto? New York City? Etc. Do women go topless? No. Mainly for the same reason men rarely go around topless. Nobody really wants to be topless. So, just make it legal, and ignore the few folks who do it, and the problem goes away.
Men "going about topless" is not that common. It is on the beach. But, in daily life, men normally have shirts. The occasional jogger or bike rider aside, it's a rarity. If you make it legal for women to be topless, you aren't going to have women showing up at work topless, or going topless to the supermarket or the coffee shop. Custom and culture govern what people wear. Women might go topless on the beach, but even there it wouldn't be all that common, and who cares anyway? What they wear now can't really be called a top. Women often wear bikinis that cover much less than their brassieres. They walk around with 3/4 of their tits out already.
I am not sure it's generally "ok" for a man to fondle and squeeze a girl's tits on a park bench. But, if the point is equal treatment, then if we assume it is legal for a man and a woman to fondle on a park bench, then it should be legal for men/men, girl/girl, or whatever.Śiva wrote: I mean men's breasts are just as erogenous as women's - physiologically speaking. If it's ok for a man to fondle and squeeze his girls tits on a park bench while soul kissing her and grabbing her ass then it's ok for two guys to do the same. How about two guys and a girl? Or three guys? Two girls? Three girls? hmm..
Whether it's "ok" is a value judgment made by each individual. I don't think it's "ok" to make out in public. i think people should get a room -- gay, straight, or whatever. But, that's just me. They don't have to listen to me, but likewise I don't have to like what other people do.