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December 29, 2010 - 10:24AM
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Not so fast . . . there are rewards for waiting to have sex until marriage, says an American study.
Not so fast . . . there are rewards for waiting to have sex until marriage, says an American study.
Couples who avoid sex before marriage end up having happier, more stable relationships, and a better time in bed, according to psychologists.
An American study backs the straightlaced view that sex should wait until your wedding night.
Researchers questioned more than 2000 married individuals about their relationships, and asked them when they started having sex.
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http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/lifemat ... 19945.html
"The fact is that far more crime and child abuse has been committed by zealots in the name of God, Jesus and Mohammed than has ever been committed in the name of Satan. Many people don't like that statement but few can argue with it."
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What is there to lol about? This is the States, they come up with studies like this, there many people that practice chastity as a lifestyle of choice and are proud of it. The whole dating/getting married-process is formalised and ritualised to an extent many Europeans find ridiculous, but that's the way it is in US.
Just think of the word "date", you Brits don't even have a word for it; in US on the other hand there are prescriptions as to protocol and decorum: first date, second date, what you do, where you go, what is appropriate setting, clothing, etc., the third date is very significant... LOL, Europeans will blunder at every step there!
Just think of the word "date", you Brits don't even have a word for it; in US on the other hand there are prescriptions as to protocol and decorum: first date, second date, what you do, where you go, what is appropriate setting, clothing, etc., the third date is very significant... LOL, Europeans will blunder at every step there!
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I'm not British, and I'm fairly certain the Brits do "go out" on "dates" together.
"The fact is that far more crime and child abuse has been committed by zealots in the name of God, Jesus and Mohammed than has ever been committed in the name of Satan. Many people don't like that statement but few can argue with it."
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Where in the world are you then?
Anyway, the Brits "go out" and "see" but don't "date". Not sure the third "seeing" is as significant as the third date in US.
Anyway, the Brits "go out" and "see" but don't "date". Not sure the third "seeing" is as significant as the third date in US.
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I'm a projection of your subconscious generated by unappeased existential angst.
And I'm fairly certain brits do go out on dates.
And I'm fairly certain brits do go out on dates.
"The fact is that far more crime and child abuse has been committed by zealots in the name of God, Jesus and Mohammed than has ever been committed in the name of Satan. Many people don't like that statement but few can argue with it."
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He's an Aussie!Deersbee wrote:Where in the world are you then?
Anyway, the Brits "go out" and "see" but don't "date". Not sure the third "seeing" is as significant as the third date in US.
Always best to go for sex before marriage, that way you'll have something to remember in the long lean years...
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If you are religious, apparently, the married years are not lean. "God's little rabbits: Religious people out-reproduce secular ones by a landslide"
http://www.scientificamerican.com/blog/ ... R_20101228
http://www.scientificamerican.com/blog/ ... R_20101228
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:sighsm:Deersbee wrote:If you are religious, apparently, the married years are not lean. "God's little rabbits: Religious people out-reproduce secular ones by a landslide"
http://www.scientificamerican.com/blog/ ... R_20101228
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Shit. I wish somebody had taught me this years ago.Deersbee wrote:...in US on the other hand there are prescriptions as to protocol and decorum: first date, second date, what you do, where you go, what is appropriate setting, clothing, etc., the third date is very significant...
I'm guessing the third "very significant" date is when you offer her money for a blowjob?
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Yes, so do AustraliansTrolldor wrote:I'm not British, and I'm fairly certain the Brits do "go out" on "dates" together.
, but we don't have that whole dating protocol rigmarole that Deersbee is talking about? I don't know what the reality is for most Americans, Deersbee. If I were to take my opinion from the relatively little I've seen and read about it in popular media of a bygone era I'd probably agree it certainly seems to have been the case ... but I won't.Deersbee wrote:Anyway, the Brits "go out" and "see" but don't "date". Not sure the third "seeing" is as significant as the third date in US.
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The 'third date' significance is a staple of Merkin movies for sure.
"The fact is that far more crime and child abuse has been committed by zealots in the name of God, Jesus and Mohammed than has ever been committed in the name of Satan. Many people don't like that statement but few can argue with it."
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To the article in the OP .. I wouldn't dismiss the idea outright .. but I would take a broader/larger cross section for study, and I would look at other influential cultural aspects, such as any pre-existing and prevailing attitudes to sex among the group/s studied.
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'fraid people take such stuff seriously, Americans are very fond of 12 steps, 3 phases, 4 keys or 9 whatever-systems.Trolldor wrote:The 'third date' significance is a staple of Merkin movies for sure.[/quote
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I've always thought you would be taking a big risk not having sex before marriage. What if you and your spouse are not compatible sexually? I know that can lead to divorce.
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Im an American and I couldn't care less about that stuff. Of course other Americans think I am unpatriotic and an embarrassment to the American way.Deersbee wrote:'fraid people take such stuff seriously, Americans are very fond of 12 steps, 3 phases, 4 keys or 9 whatever-systems.Trolldor wrote:The 'third date' significance is a staple of Merkin movies for sure.[/quote
I'm wild just like a rock, a stone, a tree
And I'm free, just like the wind the breeze that blows
And I flow, just like a brook, a stream, the rain
And I fly, just like a bird up in the sky
And I'll surely die, just like a flower plucked
And dragged away and thrown away
And then one day it turns to clay
It blows away, it finds a ray, it finds its way
And there it lays until the rain and sun
Then I breathe, just like the wind the breeze that blows
And I grow, just like a baby breastfeeding
And it's beautiful, that's life
And I'm free, just like the wind the breeze that blows
And I flow, just like a brook, a stream, the rain
And I fly, just like a bird up in the sky
And I'll surely die, just like a flower plucked
And dragged away and thrown away
And then one day it turns to clay
It blows away, it finds a ray, it finds its way
And there it lays until the rain and sun
Then I breathe, just like the wind the breeze that blows
And I grow, just like a baby breastfeeding
And it's beautiful, that's life
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