....Hell hath no rage like a woman scorned...

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....Hell hath no rage like a woman scorned...

Post by Coito ergo sum » Fri Dec 17, 2010 6:38 pm

In a suburb of Chicago, fury has overtaken a jilted bride who is suing her former fiancé for the wedding costs. Dominique Buttitta, dumped four days before the wedding was to take place, is seeking damages of $95,942 from Vito Salerno to cover wedding expenses and the cost of the lawsuit.
http://abcnews.go.com/Business/jilted-b ... d=12403921

This can be filed in the "be careful what you wish for" drawer....if the jilted bride can succeed here, then we will see other suits by jilted grooms who will sue brides whose hearts and minds changed close to the wedding day...I think absent a contract or promise that if the marriage didn't go through that these costs would be split, this lawsuit has little chance of success.

$95,000 for wedding expenses and the costs of a lawsuit? That sounds awfully high.
The suit's itemized list of expenses included over $30,000 for the banquet hall, $11,000 on lighting and flowers, $10,000 for an orchestra, $7,550 for a photographer, $5,000 for a wedding dress and accessories, and $1,700 for wedding favors.
That's fucking ridiculous. IMHO.
The expenses include other non-refundable purchases, including a bridesmaid luncheon, bridal shower and a deposit for a wedding planner.
If I was the groom, I might suggest that it wasn't me who wanted a bridesmaid luncheon or bridal shower. And, if those expenses are included, then I'm submitting a bill for the bachelor party, strippers included...lol :biggrin:

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Post by Gawdzilla Sama » Fri Dec 17, 2010 6:42 pm

A gal in LA once sued a guy for not showing up at the wedding. The attorney told the court that death was not an excuse. It was thrown out, somewhat to my surprise. I couldn't figure how it got on the docket in the first place.
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Post by Millefleur » Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:09 pm

If we ever get married it'll cost no more then the registrars time, maybe a meal out afterwards. I just don't get it.
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Post by kiki5711 » Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:37 pm

I don't get it.....her side of the family paid for "Everything"?? did he at least buy her a ring? Why didn't he escape before she spent all that money?

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Post by maiforpeace » Fri Dec 17, 2010 8:47 pm

Weak story.

The average wedding today costs $29 - $35 K, so those costs aren't unreasonable if you live in the posh side of Chicago or are aspiring nouveau riche. The most outrageous cost on that list is the venue.

The article says nothing about whether the groom agreed to pay those expenses, in whole or in part. I was the owner of a catering business for 15 years. The catering is always the largest expense, so I was often party to how prospective couples managed the financial decisions. I can't tell you how many times I heard "Honey, I want you to have the wedding of your dreams...whatever you want!" when the bride deferred to the groom on expenses. Sounds like a contract to me. Watch the Wedding Cake show on WE (it's actually quite interesting if you like to watch how it's made type shows) and in the segment where the baker consults with their client, it's never the bride making the decision about the cake alone and unilaterally, couples almost always make those decisions together.

If he made a general agreement to pay for costs, whether in whole or in part I think he's obligated to meet that agreement. If he wasn't paying attention to the exorbitant bills she was racking up, and he decides to back out of the wedding, that doesn't release him from his financial obligations. However, I don't think she should get any money for emotional distress.

Personally, I think it's ludicrous to spend that much money on a wedding, so they are both idiots. Without all the facts of the case (which surprises me coming from you CES, with your keen legal mind ;)) the title of the article alternatively could be "Groom Breaks Oral Agreement to Pay Wedding Costs".
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Post by Meekychuppet » Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:14 pm

So now you don't even hace to get married before they can clean you out?
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Post by maiforpeace » Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:31 pm

Meekychuppet wrote:So now you don't even hace to get married before they can clean you out?
They are the lucky ones. If a woman jilts the man, she's likely to get murdered.
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Post by Meekychuppet » Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:40 pm

maiforpeace wrote:
Meekychuppet wrote:So now you don't even hace to get married before they can clean you out?
They are the lucky ones. If a woman jilts the man, she's likely to get murdered.
You're right, it's good to have these extremes. Two wrongs do make a right after all.
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Post by Feck » Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:51 pm

Yes fifty grand seems a small price to pay ........for one day ........erm :fp:
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Post by maiforpeace » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:06 pm

Feck wrote:Yes fifty grand seems a small price to pay ........for one day ........erm :fp:
What a hypocrite I was, eh? I'm totally against spending this kind of fortune on a wedding, but catered them all the time.

For that amount of money you can put a hefty down payment on a house.
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Post by Clinton Huxley » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:08 pm

What a world it would be, if everyone had to justify the "sensibleness" of every bit of expenditure.....
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Post by Meekychuppet » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:12 pm

Clinton Huxley wrote:What a world it would be, if everyone had to justify the "sensibleness" of every bit of expenditure.....
It would. I'm pretty sure I know which one of us in my house would be guilty.
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Post by maiforpeace » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:30 pm

You better not stand as a best man either. :o

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Post by Feck » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:07 pm

maiforpeace wrote:You better not stand as a best man either. :o

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AWESOME :demon:
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Post by Meekychuppet » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:17 pm

Feck wrote:
maiforpeace wrote:You better not stand as a best man either. :o

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/12/2 ... 99487.html
AWESOME :demon:
Now THAT is a shotgun wedding.
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Rum wrote:Did I leave out being a twat? (With ref to your sig)
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