Ian wrote:Coito ergo sum wrote:Ian wrote:
I don't look down my nose on gas guzzlers (well, maybe just a little bit). My wife drives a minivan. Since we have three kids, it's a necessity.
I look down a little on people with long commutes.
It's not a necessity. Lots of people with three kids don't have minivans or SUVs. It's what you prefer because it makes your life a little easier and you can afford it.
And, how do you justify looking down your nose at someone with a "gas guzzler" when you have one as well? (minivan) Maybe those other people also find their guzzler to be a "necessity?"
My commute cannot be shorter. Period. Hence the Prius.
Says you. But, it certainly "can." You just don't prefer it. You could change jobs to a lower paying (or similar paying) job near your house. You could pay more rent closer to work and get a second job. You choose not to. Many people choose to drive SUVs because under their practical circumstances they feel they are as "necessary" as you feel your long commute is.
Ian wrote:
The minivan isn't exactly a luxury SUV. It's a Hyundai Entourage.
It's not the luxury that matters, but the gas mileage. Well, that is unless someone's objection to a vehicle is class based and not environmentally based.
Ian wrote:
Nor does she put a lot of miles on it.
Some Prius driver is looking down on her, smugly, despite her supposed lack of miles.
Ian wrote:
If it was just her and three kids she could make do with something smaller (and she used to own a little convertible before the kids came). But the difference between a 4-person family and a 5-person family is huge when purchasing a car, especially when three carseats are involved. When the whole family travels together, we squeeze ourselves and our belongings in there very tightly, thank you. It's not merely about "easier". I'd say that makes it a necessity.
I'm with you. I agree it makes things work well, but it's not a "necessity." Plenty of people get by with less.
Ian wrote:
My "looking down my nose" comment goes for people who drive giant cars and yet have little or no practical need for them.
And, my point is you have no idea what their practical need is, generally speaking. Just seeing a guy driving alone in an SUV doesn't tell you anything about why he has that SUV or what his circumstances are. I've had a similar conversation in the past with some people who "looked down their nose" at me for being unapologetic about my SUV. I have the same kind of rationale for my SUV being a "necessity" as you have for your minivan.
Ian wrote:
My mother-in-law owns a giant Tahoe and has absolutely no need for it; she just likes a big car. Quite a different category from my wife.
Maybe your mother-in-law puts stuff in the back from time to time that she needs space for. Or, maybe she lives in a climate where some snow driving capability is better. Maybe she doesn't drive much at all, and thereby causes less of an impact on the environment than people who drive smaller cars longer distances?