apophenia wrote:
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klr wrote:
I don't egregiously misquote, and I read enough following the "how do I know" to make it clear in my mind that I was being asked to front up some sources to go with my earlier claims,.
Awesome. So in other words, you didn't read far enough, and this "I read far enough" business is just so much C.Y.A. But by all means, don't accept responsibility for not reading far enough to make an intelligent response based upon what I actually wrote, and instead based it on a partial reading.
And your nitpick about you not being authority is just a distraction. Who cares. You represented yourself as knowledgeable and I accepted. The rest is ass tooting.
Good grief. Take the time out to quote give someone a few helpful links ...
apophenia wrote:
I see. So treating somebody according to a stereotype is okay so long as there are actually people who fit the stereotype. I guess this is an admission that it would be okay of me to characterize you as a depressed, nihilistic, gay kiddy diddler because that's a stereotype that some have of atheists, and there are depressed, gay, kiddy diddling atheists. Are you black? If you were, would I be justified in demanding an explanation for your statement that you don't like watermelon?
I didn't say it was OK, I merely pointed out why it happened. And here's something: Had I known that you were a veteran of on-line discussions, I would have probably been made no bones about the need for a newcomer to declare about themselves and their background/outlook before jumping straight in to a serious debate. But since I didn't know, I skirted around it and gave you the (unstated) benefit of the doubt.
So you may take it or leave it. No harm done, no-one got killed. Actually, I did make one clear error, but politeness prevents me from mentioning it here.
apophenia wrote:
Yes, I understand that tropes establish themselves on the basis of some empirical validity, but using that as a justification for holding people to stereotypes is just intellectual laziness. And remember, I've been an op on one of the most popular channels on EFNet for over 10 years, so this, "you obviously haven't been around, let me straighten you out" is condescending bullshit. I have dealt with thousands of people throughout the years, and hundreds of tossers who thought their little fucking around was the latest and greatest thing. I understand the problem, I have lived it, and I have not descended to your depths. What you're saying to me seems essentially a variant of, "we could have treated you as an individual, but it was just easier not to." Indeed. It is easier. Is it better? I don't think so. And people like Morticia seem more interested in using my words as some sort of Ouija board to divine my hidden thoughts. Here's a radical thought -- if you want to know what somebody thinks and feels, ASK THEM. That you seem to trust more in your gifts as a head doctor probably rests on a lack of communication skills. I have repeatedly qualified my assertions, contextualized them and done everything I could to qualify my intentions. To no avail. It's just been easier to shit on me and make lame excuses later ("oh, I read enough, I think.." -- no you did not). Not a single one of you here asked me directly, am I defending the church's actions. And I've produced voluminous confessional which elucidate where I'm coming from. To no avail (e.g. Morticia).
For someone who seems to take such umbrage at the idea of them being somehow stereotyped or pigeon-holed on the basis of little evidence, you seem to engage in a remarkable amount of it yourself. You know
nothing about me, yet you feel free to cast aspersions on my communication skills, or that say that I think I'm a head doctor, or that "I have not descended to your depths". Quite charming, I'd say. Nowhere in any of my responses to you have I said anything even remotely comparable.
So I'll say it again: Chill out, it's only an Internet forum.
FWIW: I've also done more than my fair share of mod and admin work (not here I might add), and am more than sufficiently acquainted with social dynamics on the internet.
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Both you and Zilla mishandled the text you were given, and at least Zilla admitted his mistake with the humorous emoticon. You seem determined to engage in a complex obfuscations to cover up and avoid taking responsibility for your error. But good news. The Catholic church has need of people with such skills, and, they're hiring.
Oh please: More personalisation, completely unwarranted analysis of my thoughts and motives, and grandstanding to boot. I have no intention of responding in kind. Moreover, should you continue to respond to me in this manner, I will most likely ignore you completely in the future, or to whatever extent suits me. It doesn't bother me in the slightest to simply walk away from any situation where I feel there is no benefit to staying.