And well done for getting married in a Church - a real one.
With a minister - a real one.
The official website for the Church (Shelter Rock - with its historical roots in Judaism and Christianity says...
"Through the media of word, music, silence, and shared sacred space, we celebrate our core religious values and are encouraged to live them daily"
Lion (IRC)
http://www.daylightatheism.org/2010/06/ ... ment-57630