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Re: There is no religious freedom anywhere !!

Post by JimC » Tue Apr 17, 2012 9:24 am

MrJonno wrote:You can't stop adults attempting to brainwash children but you don't have to make it easier for them to do so.

Home schooling where you keep your child away from other kids as they might have thoughts different from your own is an abomination. Allowing children to leave school early as they don't need a longer education if all they will ever do is be a member of the parents cult.

Turning children into clones of their parents is evil full stop
To be fair to Coito's argument there is a smooth continuum between the sort of parental influence that exists even without a conscious effort to inculcate values, and the sort of cult-like program that sadly still exists, much of it deriving from fundamentalist religious beliefs, but some being political in nature.

My point is simply that there exists levels of "religious training" does in fact reduce the freedom of the child to choose. Finding the dividing line is the tricky part...
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Re: There is no religious freedom anywhere !!

Post by mistermack » Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:25 am

Thumpalumpacus wrote: Yes, I read all that. The problem with your logic is that pedagogy is necessarily programmatic to a certain extent, but that once a mind has been formed, smacking it over the head with an injection is a violation of its freedom.

The same amount of energy may be expended in tapping in 500 tacks and bashing in the piece of wood. It's not just the quantity of energy expended, it's how it's expended.

Having been raised a Southern Baptist, but not in a heavy-handed manner, I was drip-fed the faith. In that same time, my own skepticism grew as well ... even as early as six or seven. There was much that was unusual about my youth, but the existence of my skepticism wasn't, I don't think.

I'm fine with disagreement on this issue, because I understand that my experiences aren't regnant. My main objection is the misplaced comparison between religion and addictive drugs. I've never buried anyone whose heart was stopped by a religious overdose. I've buried two friends from heroin overdoses. Equivocating the two, without acknowledging that religion may be the expression of a deeper issue, is, in essence, a form of post hoc, because you cannot say that the religion is not merely an expression of craziness that would otherwise find another avenue of expression.
It's a fair comment, but it rests on the word addiction only having that very specific meaning.
Words mean what we mean, when we use them. If a meaning is widely used and accepted, then that's what the word means. That's a fact about language.
Gay used to mean brightly coloured, cheerful. Now it means homosexual as well.

People say they are addicted to soccer. To chocolate. To sex. To flattery. To Shakespeare. To too much salt. (in my case)
To having babies. To surfing. To fishing, To hunting. The list is endless. People will say that they, or others, are addicted.
So that's what addicted means. As WELL as substance addiction.

And the other thing about addiction is that people often don't even know that they're addicted. Other people know, but they don't.
I'm addicted to cigars. I hardly ever smoke them, but I never stop wanting one. I class that as addicted, because I'm not in control of what I want. And it's certainly a loss of freedom, because I would like to be free of that craving for a cigar.

You can be a little bit addicted, because that is how the word is widely used.

As far as religious indoctrination goes, I think the reason that many people don't see it as a loss of freedom, is that it's so "normal". Nearly everyone does it, and nearly everyone has had it done to them.
So people have a hard job seeing how different it is from other "normal" things that children are taught.

If it wasn't "normal", people would see it straight away.

Imagine a planet where NOBODY EVER had a religion. Kids were just taught facts.
If your neighbour went mad, and started seeing fairies, and began to indoctrinate his kids about fairies, and the kids grew up to be the only people on the planet believing in fairies, it would be easy to see that he had taken away by indoctrination, their ability to see the truth. And yet this is what is happening to most kids, every day.

It's just so fucking "normal" that nobody can see it.
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Re: There is no religious freedom anywhere !!

Post by MrJonno » Tue Apr 17, 2012 3:09 pm

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MrJonno wrote:You can't stop adults attempting to brainwash children but you don't have to make it easier for them to do so.

Home schooling where you keep your child away from other kids as they might have thoughts different from your own is an abomination. Allowing children to leave school early as they don't need a longer education if all they will ever do is be a member of the parents cult.

Turning children into clones of their parents is evil full stop
To be fair to Coito's argument there is a smooth continuum between the sort of parental influence that exists even without a conscious effort to inculcate values, and the sort of cult-like program that sadly still exists, much of it deriving from fundamentalist religious beliefs, but some being political in nature.

My point is simply that there exists levels of "religious training" does in fact reduce the freedom of the child to choose. Finding the dividing line is the tricky part...
I don't think the state can easily rule on the use of non-violence inside the home (it can and does rule on violence) but it can rule on what produces a functioning citizen outside the home (ie go to school unless there are exceptional circumstances, schools are evil marxist atheist secular organisations is not such a circumstance)
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Re: There is no religious freedom anywhere !!

Post by Thumpalumpacus » Tue Apr 17, 2012 10:00 pm

mistermack wrote:It's a fair comment, but it rests on the word addiction only having that very specific meaning.
Words mean what we mean, when we use them. If a meaning is widely used and accepted, then that's what the word means. That's a fact about language.
Gay used to mean brightly coloured, cheerful. Now it means homosexual as well.

People say they are addicted to soccer. To chocolate. To sex. To flattery. To Shakespeare. To too much salt. (in my case)
To having babies. To surfing. To fishing, To hunting. The list is endless. People will say that they, or others, are addicted.
So that's what addicted means. As WELL as substance addiction.

And the other thing about addiction is that people often don't even know that they're addicted. Other people know, but they don't.
I'm addicted to cigars. I hardly ever smoke them, but I never stop wanting one. I class that as addicted, because I'm not in control of what I want. And it's certainly a loss of freedom, because I would like to be free of that craving for a cigar.

You can be a little bit addicted, because that is how the word is widely used.

As far as religious indoctrination goes, I think the reason that many people don't see it as a loss of freedom, is that it's so "normal". Nearly everyone does it, and nearly everyone has had it done to them.
So people have a hard job seeing how different it is from other "normal" things that children are taught.

If it wasn't "normal", people would see it straight away.

Imagine a planet where NOBODY EVER had a religion. Kids were just taught facts.
If your neighbour went mad, and started seeing fairies, and began to indoctrinate his kids about fairies, and the kids grew up to be the only people on the planet believing in fairies, it would be easy to see that he had taken away by indoctrination, their ability to see the truth. And yet this is what is happening to most kids, every day.

It's just so fucking "normal" that nobody can see it.
And those are fair points that you make here. Even as a believer, though, I never felt a craving for the faith, I never desired to be told I was going to burn in hell yada yada yada. And when I left my faith behind, while the process was at times frightening, it was also liberating; so that I don't see it as an addiction as much as I see it as an unnoticed imprisonment. Or, to use another metaphor, the river has no awareness of the banks which shape its course.

I agree that the religious indoctrination of youth is unfair, and of a different order than, say, the indoctrination not to steal. I also think that it can be a loss of freedom. It very much depends on what is taught, and how it is taught. It's especially difficult when one is one-half of a heterodox parenting team, too, trying to raise a child with respect to the outlooks of both parents; but in one sense, that made it easier on my son. I was able to demand equal presentation for my views, and trust in his native ability to think.

More important than teaching the children what to think is teaching them how to think.
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Post by mistermack » Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:01 am

A high proportion of people posting here will be able to say that THEY didn't receive heavy indoctrination. It is after all an atheist oriented site.
In a way, the fact that they are here illustrates what happens when people DON'T have their freedom heavily restricted as a child.

Somebody made the point earlier that social pressures can restrict religious freedom in the same way that I'm claiming for indoctrination. That's completely true, as in the video of the "pissed catholic mother" in the first post. We had similar rows with my mother. Not QUITE so pushy, but similarly hard to buck.

The social pressures don't have to be so "in your face" as that to be effective.

I have an aunt in Ireland who is in her mid nineties.
When I visit, I don't go to church. She knows very well what I think. She's terrified if a priest calls, at what I might say.
But my sisters go over, and they go to church. They were chatting about it not long ago, and I was amazed that they NEVER go, here in England, but they still go when they visit.
My aunt doesn't, she's not fit, but she still sends them out the door. And they are in their fifties.
They both agree that it's about time they got the guts to just say, "I'm not going to mass" but even aged fifty, they can't find the nerve. They were laughing about it.

But that's how strong invisible pressures can be. You don't need to be pushed or shoved. It's just there.

And thinking back, they both used to go to church, when their kids were small.
So even though they weren't strongly religious, they still felt the pressure to make sure that their kids got indoctrinated. And of course, the provision of schools is an invisible social pressure.
The catholic school we went to as kids is still well regarded, but it's not that certain that you will be able to get your kids in there.
If you brought them up without any religion, the chances would certainly be less.

So you've got adults who don't even believe, indoctrinating their kids, because of family or social pressures.
They just "go along with it".
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Post by Thumpalumpacus » Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:19 am

I told my parents when I was twelve that I wasn't going to church anymore. I wasn't particularly brave, or rebellious, or smart.
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Post by mistermack » Thu Apr 19, 2012 12:04 pm

Thumpalumpacus wrote:I told my parents when I was twelve that I wasn't going to church anymore. I wasn't particularly brave, or rebellious, or smart.
You got off lightly. Very lightly.
That's very much the exception. Most people DON'T abandon the belief. and would experience social pressures if they did, and most continue on to indoctrinate their own kids in due course.
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Post by Coito ergo sum » Thu Apr 19, 2012 12:52 pm

mistermack wrote:A high proportion of people posting here will be able to say that THEY didn't receive heavy indoctrination.
Everyone receives indoctrination. That's why children tend to wind up with the politics of their parents, as well as their religions. While some percentage will rebel, most don't. Same thing with racism -- apple doesn't fall far from the tree, and same thing with moral values. Parental influence can indoctrinate a child into behaving well, having a good work ethic, being kind and generous, believing in gods, being a Democrat, and many other things.

Freedom doesn't mean freedom from your parents. It means freedom from the State.

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Post by mistermack » Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:17 pm

Coito ergo sum wrote: Freedom doesn't mean freedom from your parents. It means freedom from the State.
Amazing. So if your parents keep you in a cage, you're free.
You should have represented Josef Fritzle. He kept his daughter Elizabeth completely free in a locked cellar for 24 years, fathering 7 children.
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Post by Coito ergo sum » Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:21 pm

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Coito ergo sum wrote: Freedom doesn't mean freedom from your parents. It means freedom from the State.
Amazing. So if your parents keep you in a cage, you're free.
No. But, we're talking about "religious freedom" in the sense you raised it in the OP.

We all have freedom of speech rights under the first amendment, even if our parents don't let us say whatever we want.
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You should have represented Josef Fritzle. He kept his daughter Elizabeth completely free in a locked cellar for 24 years, fathering 7 children.
Sure, and in your mind that means "there is no religious freedom anywhere."

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Post by mistermack » Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:34 pm

Coito ergo sum wrote: We all have freedom of speech rights under the first amendment, even if our parents don't let us say whatever we want.
That's exactly my original point. In that case, you have a theoretical legal freedom, but you don't have it in practice.

Like the daughter in the cellar. She had theoretical legal freedom, but in practice, none.
It's no good having freedom of speech rights, if your father cuts your tongue out.

I'm afraid that your definition of freedom as being solely to do with legal rights, would not have impressed the girl in the cellar. And she should know.
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Post by Coito ergo sum » Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:41 pm

mistermack wrote:
Coito ergo sum wrote: We all have freedom of speech rights under the first amendment, even if our parents don't let us say whatever we want.
That's exactly my original point. In that case, you have a theoretical legal freedom, but you don't have it in practice.
Only if you define "freedom" as doing whatever you want, free from all influence, pressure, parental control, etc., which is not what freedom of religion or freedom of speech has ever meant.

The only way we can have absolute freedom from everything is to live alone in the woods. As soon as two people live together, they have influence on each other's behavior. As soon as you have laws, you have less than complete anarchy. Freedom of religion and freedom of speech, etc. does not now, and never ever has meant, however, complete anarchy and complete absence of all influences including parental influences. It's just never meant that.
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Like the daughter in the cellar. She had theoretical legal freedom, but in practice, none.
So what? We have freedom of speech, but if someone puts a bullet in your head, you're dead. So? That doesn't mean we don't have freedom of speech. It means people commit crimes.
mistermack wrote: It's no good having freedom of speech rights, if your father cuts your tongue out.
It's no good having freedoms if people commit crimes? Please, examine that argument closely. It doesn't make sense.

Of course it is good having freedoms and liberties. It is great to have freedom from arbitrary searches and seizures, right? Does that mean some jackass isn't going to commit a crime and steal your property by burgling your house? Of course not. You still have the right to security/privacy in your person, house, papers and effects. That right is against the State. The fact that burglars burgle doesn't mean "it's no good having a right to" such security/privacy. It's vital to have such a right.
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I'm afraid that your definition of freedom as being solely to do with legal rights, would not have impressed the girl in the cellar. And she should know.
I can't keep repeating myself. See above. It's not "my" definition, it's the common definition as evidenced by its usage in political discourse. Yours is an invented definition not used by anyone except you.

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Post by Thumpalumpacus » Thu Apr 19, 2012 4:01 pm

mistermack wrote:
Thumpalumpacus wrote:I told my parents when I was twelve that I wasn't going to church anymore. I wasn't particularly brave, or rebellious, or smart.
You got off lightly. Very lightly.
That's very much the exception. Most people DON'T abandon the belief. and would experience social pressures if they did, and most continue on to indoctrinate their own kids in due course.
I think most atheists in America started off being raised faithful. Very few of them have horror stories about their parents punishing them for their apostasy, or shun their children, that I've heard.

Of course, your generalities about social pressure and passing on their faith are roundly true, but hardly news ... and hardly reason to say that the freedom doesn't exist. At best, especially given the paucity of reliable numbers on the issue, we can say that brainwashing does happen sometimes, and that that freedom which does exist is not often used.

Personally, my opinion is that anyone who'd shun me because of my lack of faith was no big loss anyway; shun on, and I'll live without them. Such a point of view takes no courage, really.

Also, something that I haven't seen brought up yet in the context of America at least is the fact that our "freedom of religion" is simply a prohibition against the government making laws regarding religion, and not the family raising its children as it sees fit.
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Post by MrJonno » Fri Apr 20, 2012 9:17 am

Coito ergo sum wrote:Freedom doesn't mean freedom from your parents. It means freedom from the State.
Actually the state is ultimately responsible for the welfare for a minor but it is usually delegated to parents, the state can in extreme circumstances overide the parents wishes the parents ultimatley can't overide the courts

Interesting in British law a parent has absolute no 'rights' over a child, they only duties/responsibilities and are criminally responsible if they fail to keep. A child has a right to education (from the state or elsewhere) but its the parents responsibility that they take reasonable actions to ensure the child gets it (normally do their best to make sure they go to school, if a child goes truant and the parent knows and does not try to prevent its the parent that has broken the law not the child)
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