That idiot Crowder vs reality

[Cunt]

I think almost everyone wants to make babies.

Some also want to 'adventure' in other ways. Some don't want babies OR sexual adventure.

If someone tried to convince me that being gay was NOT a choice, it seems to take some agency away from the 'gay', who, if they are anything like the gays in my life, make their own choices, and are choosy.

In our modern world, even someone born gay could make a living doing porno movies for the straight set.

[pErvinalia]

Is someone who never acts on their urge still considered 'gay'? Is someone who does the acts, but never likes it, still considered 'gay'?

What's the relevance of what other people think? Surely all that matters is what the individual thinks of their sexual orientation.

[Cunt]

Is someone who never acts on their urge still considered 'gay'? Is someone who does the acts, but never likes it, still considered 'gay'?

What's the relevance of what other people think? Surely all that matters is what the individual thinks of their sexual orientation.

Someone wants to talk about a subject including the word 'gay', so I want to be clear about what it means to this discussion.

You don't have to understand, but can keep heckling. I'd wonder where you went if you didn't.

[Cunt]

Getting back to the subject at hand...

[Cunt]

[pErvinalia]

Is someone who never acts on their urge still considered 'gay'? Is someone who does the acts, but never likes it, still considered 'gay'?

What's the relevance of what other people think? Surely all that matters is what the individual thinks of their sexual orientation.

Someone wants to talk about a subject including the word 'gay', so I want to be clear about what it means to this discussion.

You don't have to understand, but can keep heckling. I'd wonder where you went if you didn't.

It's not heckling. I'm trying to understand your position. I guess I shouldn't be surprised that you aren't interested in an honest discussion.

[Cunt]

I answered. You still don't understand. It's ok, you don't have to.

[Cunt]

[pErvinalia]

If you cared about an honest discussion you'd make an effort to be understood. Again, it's clear you aren't here for an honest discussion. Might give you an idea why you are constantly suspended for trolling.

[Cunt]

You asked what is the relevance of what other people think. I answered why I thought it was worth defining a word, before using it.

Troll away, and if you wanted 'an honest discussion' you would have started one by now. This is about the comedy show, and you are trollish almost with every post.

So what do you want an honest discussion about? And where do you want it? Or are you just trolling right now?

[pErvinalia]

I asked you what the relevance is of other people thinking about whether a person is gay. You didn't provide the relevance.

[Cunt]

I asked you what the relevance is of other people thinking about whether a person is gay. You didn't provide the relevance.

Same as anyone thinking anything...people think things.

The point I want to clarify, is the two different definitions of the word.

Feel free to weigh in on that.

[pErvinalia]

I asked you what the relevance is of other people thinking about whether a person is gay. You didn't provide the relevance.

Same as anyone thinking anything...people think things.

But the relevant point is whether an individual thinks they are gay or not. It's irrelevant what others think.

The point I want to clarify, is the two different definitions of the word.

Again, the definition that matters is a person's view as to whether they are gay or not. What does it matter whether you think a father who sucks his first cock at 50 is gay or not?

[Cunt]

I asked you what the relevance is of other people thinking about whether a person is gay. You didn't provide the relevance.

Same as anyone thinking anything...people think things.

But the relevant point is whether an individual thinks they are gay or not. It's irrelevant what others think.

So no definition between the two to offer? OK.

The point I want to clarify, is the two different definitions of the word.

Again, the definition that matters is a person's view as to whether they are gay or not. What does it matter whether you think a father who sucks his first cock at 50 is gay or not?

I don't treat him any different, if that's what you mean.

Do you understand the difference I'm asking about? Can you paraphrase my question? Or would you prefer we simply abolish the word and concept altogether?

[pErvinalia]

I understand what you are asking, but it's irrelevant to the original post from Brian that you were responding to. Whether gayness is taught/learnt or innate is unrelated to what you think is gayness. Gayness could be accurately described as a person feeling that they are gay.