How to get pussy without harassing.

[mistermack]

I haven't got a fucking clue. Nearly all the women in my life made the first move. I was usually far too shy to give it a go. So I can't ever remember harassing anyone.
But all this shit about people in power approaching women, it's all fine in theory. But in practice, and throughout history, none of us would be here, if men didn't try it on with women, unless the woman was higher up the pecking order.
I mean, doctors marry nurses, bosses married their secretaries, supervisors married factory workers, dentists married their assistants, etc. etc.

Is all that now going to be harassment? Fuck it, I say try it on. If they say no, try another. It's only bad, if you can't take rejection.

Apart from the Doctor/Patient situation (obviously) I don't see that it's harassment to ask.
It's harassment to not take no for an answer, and it's abuse to fuck up someone's career, just because they don't fancy you. But not just asking.

[devogue]

Guys, don't do that.

[Rum]

You talk and you build rapport. You give and get signals. Worked well enough for me over a long and busy period in my life. The history MM refers to, the ‘trying it on’ as he so eloquently puts it is what all this is about. It may be pretty bizarre at the moment and it may be hard to process for many of us, particularly males of a certain age may I suggest, but it is actually progress happening as we watch.

[Dworkin]

Folks,

We are not all pussy grabbers.

D.

[JimC]

Mutual groping at drunken parties is the preferred method here...

[mistermack]

I remember years ago, when I mostly never "tried it on", and just went out with girls who actually approached me.
I had a friend who was much more straightforward.
We were standing talking one time, and a car pulled up. It was the wife of an acquaintance, ( wearing a low top). We chatted for a couple of minutes, through the window. All of a sudden, he stuck his hand down her top and started feeling her tits, while carrying on talking as if nothing had happened. She went red, but didn't do anything. My eyes were on stalks. He had a good feel, then took his hand out and she drove off.
Within days she was calling round his house and cheating on her husband.

Sometimes it pays to take a chance. She did have nice tits.

[JimC]

Classy!

[mistermack]

Classy!

At the end of the day, we are fucking apes, after all.

After the romance and poetry, it's all about poking your dick up a woman's pussy. It's nice. Go for it.

[devogue]

Classy!

At the end of the day, we are fucking apes, after all.

After the romance and poetry, it's all about poking your dick up a woman's pussy. It's nice. Go for it.

I've tried to think up a counter argument to this, but I can't.

[Galaxian]

I remember years ago, when I mostly never "tried it on", and just went out with girls who actually approached me.
I had a friend who was much more straightforward.
We were standing talking one time, and a car pulled up. It was the wife of an acquaintance, ( wearing a low top). We chatted for a couple of minutes, through the window. All of a sudden, he stuck his hand down her top and started feeling her tits, while carrying on talking as if nothing had happened. She went red, but didn't do anything. My eyes were on stalks. He had a good feel, then took his hand out and she drove off.
Within days she was calling round his house and cheating on her husband.
Sometimes it pays to take a chance. She did have nice tits.

The "Natural Selection" implications of this hysteria & intentional social engineering have not been appreciated. As the saying goes "He who dares, wins" But never before has there been such a concerted attack on risk takers.

The Statute of Limitations has now been inverted. It used to be that accusations had to be made in less than about 6 years. That has now been effectively overturned, and accusations need to wait for over 20 years, so the innuendos become persuasive.

In other words EVERY male, including those on this forum, is potentially liable for a claim that they raped, harassed, or otherwise molested ANY female, no matter how obnoxious or ugly, who decides to press charges FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER. That reason would not be stated. It could have to do with getting money, or prestige, or infamy, or revenge. It makes no difference. Generally the wealthier or better known men are exposed to this criminal or civil litigation. No man is immune, innocent or not, since ALL men are deemed to be rapists & guilty by virtue of being male.

The repercussions are obvious. One is the Sexodus. That affects even the impulsive & reckless teens, as mentioned above. Theoretically, your friend (above) could still be in jail, since the first sentence could have snowballed into further penalties for 'crimes' while in prison, or 'crimes' after release, arrested due to his sex-criminal record.

So, expect a race towards timidity in dating, flirting, & seducing, for fear that in 20 years some hag will accuse you of having done something at some time in the past... even if you never knew her. SHE will be immune & YOU will be prosecuted.

Trigger Warning!!!1! :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qr7Y02TnseQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GAUCSubcxg4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZrzCAuiw7w


Fortunately the AI computers & robots soon to replace us won't have such problems, & we won't be around to care

[cronus]

Entering the asexual phase of population demographics. Birth rates been declining in the West with overpopulation for a while. Pretty soon the population crash and collapse of cultivated values into a brutal dark ages will be here.

http://www.cabinetmagazine.org/issues/42/wiles.php

I was match-made by the way....wouldn't have got married otherwise.

[rainbow]

[mistermack]

It's a shame because, by changing the environment so that every approach is harassment, we are producing a generation of girls who don't have the skills for dealing with an unwanted approach.
When it happens all the time, girls are wise to it, and know what to do.

Schoolgirls hardly talk about anything else, and what to do if they are not interested is rehearsed over and over by listening to their friends, or older sisters, or mothers, or even grannies. It doesn't happen in a vacuum.

But if you engineer a world where everyone is afraid to ask, you're going to lose all that. It's the same with men, they will lose the knowledge of how to take being rejected, and it's easy to explode if you don't know what to do.

I prefer the non-perfect world where it's ok to make an approach, to the shit world where everyone's afraid to breathe.